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Current music:	the tv in the other room

Drama O'Rama


I keep trying to get away and they keep dragging me back in...

So last weekend P got a little wasted and because her current guy (whom I call Dick - though his name is Rick) can't seem to make any kind of commitment issue, she decided to have some fun with Alan. You remember Alan?

(here's what I wrote about it when it happened:
1 - Again P goes out with someone that I liked. Here's the thing - I really don't like, nor do I want him, anymore. So, why should I care? The truth is, I wouldn't if it was anyone else (but her). The hypocrisy just annoys the crap out of me. I am past the annoyance in general though. I love that girl to death but I just have to remember that when it comes to boys, she really has a standard for her and a different standard for everyone else.)


Anyway, so last Saturday she basically uses him (Alan) to make herself feel better about Dick not responding as he should. He's an ass too. They (P and Dick) are both so high-maintenance it's hysterical. Anyway, so this week they are sort of "made-up" for lack of a better term. I don't really think anything of it, as staying out of it and only offering comments if directly asked seems to be the best policy.

Soooo... last night I get to Cowboys. I think Alan was waiting for me or something (I was later than usual because of an office party), as he practically ran me over when he saw me... wanting to know - you guessed it - why P wasn't returning his calls or texts, especially after last weekend and their little party. Now I don't want to answer this, she never even mentions the guy to me. Whether that's because she thinks I don't want to hear because it was wrong of her to go out with him to begin with or because she really doesn't care about him, he's just someone she "got" - probably a little of both. So, I say that I don't know - that she was pretty trashed when she got there - that I don't want to be in the middle, etc. Then I go to the bathroom to get away... While I am in there I decide I'm going to just tell him. I had originally told him when he asked me if I cared if he went out with her that, and I quote, "you will have to get in line" to which he replied that he could handle the competition. (to which I think "whatever - you ain't all that"). So, I go back out to the club and I see him again and I tell him, "remember that song if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with?" He said he thought so but wasn't sure what I meant.

**aside: did I really believe that I could get away with just saying that and he would understand without me having to say it??? - he really isn't that bright. My bad**

Anyway, after I stressed not being able to be with the one you love, he finally says, "Oh, there's someone else".... (there's a few actually, but that's neither here nor there since that particular night she was only concerned with one - haha) So, anyway, now he's all ticky and saying how he hates women, yadda yadda yadda... then he says, and I swear I am not making this up - "She said exactly what she thought I wanted to hear"...

REALLY???? I don't have any other words, really - I am plain out - :/

On a different note, I have been hanging out there with these two guys I met in May or thereabouts. I met them because one of them, Brian, started asking me about dancing and stuff. So, he and his friend Matt, have been coming up there on a fairly regular basis. They are both engineers and in their early 30's. I like hanging out with them because they are such complete guys and they talk around me as if I were one of them - it can be quite amusing. For example, one night Brian says to me "Has anyone ever used the line 'you're the prettiest face I've ever come upon' to you?"... to which I, of course, rolled my eyes and said "no". Last night the both of them were talking about Family Guy - I think that was the one - and some character who is some sort of player that the next morning his first thought is "why is are you still here?" and few more. Ring any bells? Anyway, both of them said something to me last night at different times that completely made my night and you, djr, are going to know how pathetic my life is that it did. The first thing was when we were walking through the crowd and this extremely large girl almost knocked me over. Matt saw it happen and said something to the effect of "then I saw little Joan being tackled over..."... Little - he said I was little. Then later we had gone outside to try and get out of the smoke and heat. I had on a sweater (because of the fore-mentioned party I had been at) and had rolled up the sleeves. Later when we went back in, we managed to get under some vents. Brian said "this is much better" and I said, pointing to my sleeves, "Yeah, I'm not hot anymore..." then said kiddingly, "well, I'm still hot - zzzssss"... and he said, without missing a beat "that goes without saying". :)

On another side note, Brian is so my type, both physically and the fact that he's not a country redneck boy, at least not as much as most of the guys in there. He has no interest in me that way (and he is a bit younger) - but damn. Anyway, I can live with friendships... I miss guy friends - they can be so much less DRAMA-TI-CAL ...

And some more...

Girl A decides that life isn't complicated enough and wants to go home (or take home) Boy A.

Boy A's roommate finds out (Boy A told her when she asked where he was going. Surely Girl A might have had the forethought to tell Boy A to absolutely NOT tell Roommate, but I digress...) and tells Boy A that if he goes home with Girl A, he has to move out of Roommate's house. For a myriad of reasons - but basically Roommate says s/he does not want to "hear about it from Girl A for 6 months, because Girl A will get 'hurt'".
Is this really any of Roommate's business????
I think not.

Not to mention that Roommate is a Drama addict and takes on everyone's actions as somehow involving them. Not to mention that Roommate does NOT like any boy to like anyone but her. Roommmate likes all the attention to be on her and if attention is averted to others, Roommate becomes petulant and apparently, a manupilative shrew.

Girl A was getting to a place where she wasn't as annoyed with Roommate as when first finding this out but now that Girl A is thinking about it - is just annoyed again.

Also, Girl A is now convinced more than ever that doing Boy A would be really fun and might just be what she needs to no longer be annoyed at Roommate. With the addendum added that Girl A has (nor had) NO intention of telling Roommate to begin with. Because, and I can't reiterate this enough - IT IS NONE OF ROOMMATE'S DAMN BUSINESS!!!!!


For the record - Girl A and Boy A have managed somehow to get together a few times without anyone knowing about it (well, anyone that would be 'roommate'). And the sky has not fallen and Boy A is a lot of fun and just what Girl A need(ed)/(s).
And how fun it is to have a secret from someone.... JUST SAYIN'! hahaha